Goodbye Carlos! |
Carlos is off to sub-Sahara Africa, with all of its perils and appeals, where his wife has been assigned with the UN. Their move arises from the path they have chosen for the sake of working for the good of humanity and reflects just what decent human beings they are. Carlos is more than a friend. He numbers among those who make up the characters of my Bangkok.
This city is a hub for everything, both good and bad. With the comings and goings of all sorts of people from everywhere, it is one of those places in the world where you meet characters.
What makes a character? They are the great human beings who bear an incredible story arising out of a life lived with its more than fair share of adventure, diversity, challenge, colour and excitement. I say that everyone who plants themselves in Bangkok has quite a story that brings them here. This is definitely so of the characters of my Bangkok and, being in Bangkok, the story only gets embellished more and more. What I realise living here is that even in Sydney, I would never meet the characters I meet here. This is part of the attraction of a Bangkok.
Of course, they are not all like Carlos. Some are quite naughty. Still whoever they are, they reflect the richness of humanity and add to it. No matter their story and how chaotic or disastrous it may be, these people happily make up my life in my Bangkok and bless it with their presence. They make here what it is, a rich tapestry of life. They give me so much. It is my privilege to know them. I learn from them. They are my teachers. I feel sad when they go but more importantly I am ever grateful they are a part of me, making me richer for knowing them. They never really leave. They simply make the story that is my Bangkok. That is true of Carlos.