Language is fascinating

Yes, it has been a few big weeks in my Bangkok and the toll is telling as I noticed on Sunday when reading the gospel.  Without any warning, I proclaimed that the distant land suffered a great salmon instead of a great famine.  It was a great reminder to me - loosen up and keep a sense of humour.

Then after mass, another issue arose.   This time it began with the surprise news that next Sunday we have six children making their first communion.  Really?  I never knew but I will go with the flow.  Then I meet their catechist and am greeted with the news why this church project with the children has been kept a secret - they are frightened of me.  I was shocked and even somewhat hurt to think children are frightened of me.  Why?  I do not even know who they are.  Then, I think as always, what is really at play here?

So I do what I do best here and face the issue directly, face to face.  On meeting the catechist the next day, I approach the subject.
"You say the children are frightened of me?  What does that mean?" 
Some conversation seeking clarification follows and I see that the children are not frightened of me but they are nervous.  The catechist had chosen the word "frightened" to describe the children's behaviour but that is not the right adjective. 

They were nervous.  Now I understand and it makes sense.  It is not about the strong overtones of being frightened.  Now I can rest easy.  It is all about language.  Language misused or misunderstood can create all sorts of upsets.  It is best to keep an open mind and seek always clarity.  Language is about much more than sharing of ideas.  It opens the door to much more.  It gives one insights into how others see the world and opens up cultures we never knew.  Language is truly fascinating.  I ever see that living in my Bangkok.